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So how do you know if its really over falling out of love is a bitch....

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Posted 29 October 2005 - 03:35 AM

I guess I hated how they reminded me of my girlfriend. even kimchi got on my nervous.
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Posted 29 October 2005 - 07:53 AM

QUOTE (Storm Shadow @ Oct 28 2005, 07:07 PM)
to be honest with you, we hadnt had sex all year this year. It wasnt even about that to me anyways. Sex wasnt important at all. I really loved the girl. I just wanted to patch things up between us first and foremost. Everything else was secondary. I didnt pressure her for ass or anything like that. I just wanted to be with her.

Whaaa?
I mean, for fuck's sake (how appropriate, haha), are you sure you live in 21st century?

I am sorry, really, I do not mean to offend you or anything, maybe I do not understand the whole situation properly, but did it ever occur to you that she simply might be sexually frustrated about the whole relationship without sex???? I mean, it is highly commendable that you do not want to just to get laid, that you really love her and you don't want her to think you just use her, but are you sure about all this???

Sorry if I sound crude but I am simply curious.
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Posted 29 October 2005 - 12:56 PM

No. I WANTED to have sex, dont get me wrong. Come on, I'm hispanic, when dont we want to blow a chicks back out? But everytime I tried to get close to her, she always had an excuse like, "i dont want to get pregnant", or some other strange reason. Now that I've had a chance to marinate on the situation and put the pieces together, I think it's obvious she broke up with me earlier this year to fuck someone else and not feel guilty about it (cruel), and she wouldnt let me have sex with her because it probably started messing with her conscience.
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Posted 29 October 2005 - 11:23 PM

Ms. Corvax: Women should be able to talk about sex without having to apologize. pinch.gif Fucking double standard society...

Mr. Shadow: I think your statement should probably read "Come on, I'm a guy, when..." But I need to be in a loving relationship before there's much physical intimacy, so I think I understand what you were saying.
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Posted 30 October 2005 - 02:05 AM

thumbsup.gif im glad there's someone who understands my position
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Posted 30 October 2005 - 02:24 AM

No, he's right. Hispanics do like fucking girls. CHeck this out

There were 1,470,152 babies born to single women in 2004, 35.7 percent of all births in the country, NCHS said. That was up from 1,415,995 a year earlier.... Births to whites declined by nearly 18,000 while Hispanics were up 32,000, there was an increase of more than 8,000 in births to Asians and a rise of just 72 births among black women.

My pal found this at school today on the net. Hispanics are banging more than Asians, something I thought impossible. I believe those are stats for the US. Asians are EVERYWHERE. They have so many babies that it's now ilegal to have more than 1 in China!

The US also ranks # 1 for single mothers of all the 1st world countries.

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Posted 30 October 2005 - 02:10 PM

It's illegal because the population is out of control. Traditional chinese culture involved lots of subsitance farming, and that requires many people working the fields, hence more boys to work = good. Sadly, more girls = bad and often murder.

The fact that a large portion of the Hispanic population lives undocumented and/or under the poverty line contributes largely to the population increase, as well as children born outside of marriage.

Statistics only measure a value, it's up to people to figure out what contributes to that value. They are never black and white.
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Posted 30 October 2005 - 04:23 PM

Let's hope your right, it's embarising being a white guy with those numbers floating around.
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Posted 30 October 2005 - 06:02 PM

QUOTE (Spoon Poetic @ Oct 29 2005, 01:58 AM)
Curious...  Do you hate all white people after a white girl dumps you?

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Posted 31 October 2005 - 10:18 AM

Jordan: If you don't like them, go father a few thousand kids to make up for it. tongue.gif
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Posted 31 October 2005 - 06:42 PM

Somebody please explain to me why this girl continues to call me after she already told me she sometimes hates me and I shouldnt worry about what she talks about with other guys? Last week she lost her phone (she ran into my mother at the mall and told her), so last Tuesday I get a call from a T-Mobile phone number....twice within 15 minutes. I knew it was her. I never called back. Today I'm in the middle of a project at work, and I get a call from that same number again. I know its her, but I refuse to pick up or call back. I told her dumb ass not to call me again to make this breakup easier on me, but she wont do it. I'm not falling for this trap again.

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Posted 31 October 2005 - 07:16 PM

sounds like it's time to move...

geeze...

that's pretty scary.
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Posted 31 October 2005 - 09:05 PM

Have a girl answer the phone...

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Posted 01 November 2005 - 11:55 AM

Give her your new email address, and forward all emails from her to her mom! biggrin.gif
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Posted 01 November 2005 - 02:23 PM

QUOTE (Slade @ Oct 29 2005, 11:23 PM)
Ms. Corvax: Women should be able to talk about sex without having to apologize. pinch.gif Fucking double standard society...


Yeah, you are absolutely right. I just felt strange talking about that, which proves your point that there is double standard in society.
Anyway, Storm, the more think of it the more this whole situation looks to me like that: a girl sees all your values: you love her, you respect her etc. so you are a perfect husband/long term partner material. At the same time, she just fancies other guys more than you and follows her instincts from time to time and goes shagging other guys, only to be engulfed by guilt about that (how can I NOT fancy this guy, he is sooo perfect, I must be a bad, immoral person). Hence the floods of tears and comebacks, and phonecalls.

To tell the truth, I feel a bit sorry for her. The hormones are horrible things when they wreak havoc in the bodies of young people.

Either you wait until her hormones settle a little or find someone who fancies you in bed just as much as you fancy her.
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