[LiocModnar]

The female on the other hand is changed, there is an alien fluid in her body and various tissues and membranes have been altered and there may be even more substantial changes later.  If you prefer we can say that Men are the changer women are the ones changed, but this is merely semantics.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Do you think your urethra magically seals itself whilst copulating? Secretion goes both ways, as does absorption. And if that woman you were so busy changing happened to be hosting a few generations of Chalmydia trachomatis, do you honestly believe you're not going to be changed too?

I have a question for you, to test your distinction between the mens and the womens:  Let's say a gal, rather than having sex with a man, decides to masturbate with an oversized dildo, or to let someone put a fist inside her?  Would she still be a "virgin?"  She hasn't had the fluids and such, but there's a good chance the hymen is no longer intact.

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Thanks for supplying me with Friday humour that wasn't work related. As much as I agree with your point, I think the hymen as a marker of virginity is obsolete. They vary in coverage and thickness from woman to woman and now that we're not sitting around waiting for Prince Charming to show up, they can also break without penetrative intervention.

This post has been edited by LiocModnar: 24 June 2005 - 09:28 PM

[Slade]

Yeah, and can we please get back to the original topic? All of this blathering is just plain silly.

[barend]

Back on to fisting, I think lesbians who have had all manner of intercourse with women but who have never been with men wold laugh at being called "Virgins."

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i think there are a lot of guys who made it into jail before they made it with a girl who are getting all maner of prison sex, who would still like to think of themselves as 'virgins'

This post has been edited by barend: 26 June 2005 - 11:38 PM

[Otal Nimrodi]

Personally, I think sex was designed for reproduction, but should not be limited too reproduction. If mututal pleasure is gained, otherwise... What was I saying? I forgot. Ah, yes. It should not be done. But that's just my opinion. I might be wrong. And my opinion of people who practice celibacy is they must be better at it than I would be. Why is it that it is harder not to have sex than to have sex?

[LiocModnar]

Why is it that it is harder not to have sex than to have sex?

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I don't think it's harder. If you've made a decision, you'll find a way to make it happen if you want it to. Besides, after the first few months, it gets easier and easier.

[barend]

i think there are plenty of people who tell you it's no real effort to not have sex...

that comes quite easily...

not chatting up some girl while fighting off competition from gym-junkie assholes with expensive cars, is quite easy...

[Madam Corvax]

I am one of the "plenty" Barend mentioned.

Honestly, there is nothing easier than not to have sex...

once you are past certain age when hormones are not longer wreaking havoc in your veins...
once you have three kids and no desire for more...
once you have three kids and can't afford bigger living place ...
once you started spendig twelve hours at work to feed the said kids...

Or if you inherited from your parents genes which make you unattractive in the eyes of 99.9% of the opposite sex population.

Or, in case of girls, you can't be bothered to spend three hours a day grooming yourself.. Yeah, I'd say the last bit is very easy indeed...

[Jane Sherwood]

Or if you're a Female weighing more than 120 pounds...

[Madam Corvax]

Or if you're a Female weighing more than 120 pounds...

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I filed it under the category of "genes", Jane

Honestly, it cannot be anything else. If it had been anything else, my 22 years of dieting would have resulted in something.

[Tpolg]

Or if you're a Female weighing more than 120 pounds...

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Don’t be silly, I want my honey to have some flesh on her.
Now if she is more than 5’ 6” (that’s about 1.8m for you international ladies ) then we have a problem.

[Kirby]

Whats wrong with taller women? I myself hate to have to hunch over and give myself back problems just to kiss a girl.

[Laughlyn]

That's what men created high heels are for.

(and why women later invented platform shoes)

[barend]

Don’t be silly, I want my honey to have some flesh on her.
Now if she is more than 5’ 6” (that’s about 1.8m for you international ladies ) then we have a problem.

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[barend]

Or if you're a Female weighing more than 120 pounds...

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i weigh twice that...

Don’t be silly, I want my honey to have some flesh on her.
Now if she is more than 5’ 6” (that’s about 1.8m for you international ladies ) then we have a problem.

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just so you know...
1.83m = 6'0"

but, i'm the same... the idea of a taller woman doesn't work for me.
it's imascualting...

yes call me picky... but remember i'm the kind of guy who has a lot of charm, is really cool, and an artist... but unapealing by default.

women fall for my charm, but the second another guy walks into the room i'm history... seriously, i could be chatting up a girl quite succesfully, and homeless guy who smelt likt urine and feces could walk past and steal her from me...

i don't know what it is...

girls seem to like me, but if there is a choice... (with literally anyone) they will take the other...

so with that in mind... yes, not having sex is just easy as not taking over the world!!!!

This post has been edited by barend: 28 June 2005 - 07:41 PM

[Slade]

Not having sex is indeed easy. I just have to be myself. No girl wants a quiet, laid-back eccentric guy with a dry/odd sense of humor and a head for trivia, who's more concerned about the world than what's happening on <insert television show here>, or putting up with the endlessly superficial people he meets.

See, all you need to do is possess values no one wants, and they'll pick it up on you before you even open your mouth to talk to them. You don't even need to let them know who you are, and they'll either make no effort to get to know you or give you a cold shoulder.

I find women of all shapes, sizes, and skin tones attractive, though I might be intimidated by a woman taller than I until the ice was broken. I don't really give a fuck about my "masculinity," I'd just be afraid that she'd beat me up, or tackle me and break some ribs.