[Spoon Poetic]

I still have more guy friends than girl friends. The people whose opinions actually matter to me know that it's just platonic friendships, even if we're close enough to cuddle or something when we need it. And if someone thinks I'm gay because I hug or cuddle one of my best girl friends, whatever. I guess it's easier for me because I and my friends just don't care what people think, unless they are our friends, in which case, they understand the nature of the relationships... Am I making any sense?

[looktothesky]

I still have more guy friends than girl friends. The people whose opinions actually matter to me know that it's just platonic friendships, even if we're close enough to cuddle or something when we need it. And if someone thinks I'm gay because I hug or cuddle one of my best girl friends, whatever. I guess it's easier for me because I and my friends just don't care what people think, unless they are our friends, in which case, they understand the nature of the relationships... Am I making any sense?

Totally.
A lot of people are very close minded, and aren't open towards anything like that. I hate how even a simple hug, or even crying on someone's shoulder is a kind of "taboo" and everything always has some kind of an underlying meaning to it, apparently.

[Spoon Poetic]

Yeah, that does suck. I guess I've been lucky in finding good friends that don't conform to those taboos.

[Deepsycher]

Comment retracted. Shouldn't have stated my personal experiences as it might offend people from posting.

Well if it works for a sense of personal security I have nothing against it.

This post has been edited by Deepsycher: 19 September 2007 - 11:37 AM

[Bond]

I don't care how girls look at all, but there are so manly "plus size" girls now it grosses me out! Especially when they wear tops that are way too small, and their guts hang out. Eww.

I don't know about you, but I see a lot more fat girls than I see fat guys. Maybe it's because of where I live or something, but it's disgusting.

Hey, that's what I've been saying...

What is it with those "muffin tops", anyway?

[blueoceans]

question: why do girls always fall into the toilet just because someone (usually a guy) doesnt put the seat down?

this mystery has always intrigued me for the longest of time, and now i finally want to bring this out into the open for thorough discussion.

i mean, when it happens to girls, and its a guy's fault, we never hear the end of it..the girl falls in, gets her bottom wet..maybe her legs,.maybe she falls completely in..wrestles a few alligators, then crawls out of the toilet..and suddenly she doesnt smell like the chanel number 5 she so diligently sprayed all over before the incident happened.

how in the hell does this happen in the first place ?!! (sorry ?!!, if i made an example out of you)

first off,.im only willing to excuse blind women,.obviously their sight is hindered, and that would make sense. every other girl is either retarded or careless.

i know, you have to use the bathroom...sometimes really bad. .but lets just look at a few things here.

okay..your bodily functions kicked in..you have to use the bathroom...mother nature sounded the distress beacon..you have to go,and you have to go bad...ok cool..happens to us guys too, sometimes....so..you head for the bathroom...ok..this is the first thing..obvioulsly,..even though your need is urgent...you are making sure you are still heading for the bathroom..even though you may have passed by the kitchen..and decided not to crouch over the kitchen sink and use it to relieve yourself..you decided to remain proper and use the actual toilet...this is good..i commend you ladies so far.

ok..youve reached the bathroom..you ensure no one is in...cause if someone was..this would assuredly only further intensify the urgency. ok..so no one is inside..so you bolt inside in a mad rush....oh..oh..oh..oh..you gotta go soooo bad....you briefly catch sight of the white porcelian throne,.known as the john...we guys know that you obviously must at least look at the toilet in some way or another..cause..you manage to somehow align your tushie with it,.in order to fall in like a total circus clown.

so, you unzip you jeans,.panties scroll down your legs,..and blazingly fast you lower your butt down as if to make contact with the toilet,..and BAM..it happens...you didnt take a brief second to see if the seat was down on or not...cause it was up,.from us guys using the scrub brush around the rim about 30 minutes ago,..and so,..you fall in.

if youre lucky,.your man cleaned the toilet,.so this mishap wasnt as bad as it could of been..if youre man wasnt able to clean the toilet,.or worse,.flush..then youre swimming with lincoln logs, and maybe a few floating cigarette butts.

but either way...boy,.are you girls pissed off...wowzers.

..and we get the blame for not putting the seat down after we tinkle...this is the age old scapecoat women use to try to better themselves, and make it seem like they werent stupid in the first place..and make us look bad.

nooooo,..you were too careless to take a split second to examine the toilet,..see if the seat was up or down...i mean...by this example...im sure many women have sat down on a toilet with the lid completely closed,..and peed right on top

and since women dont look where they sit before they sit down..im sure many women have fallen off of motorcycles while trying to get on...maybe even horses...lawnchairs,..couches...recliners...anything that requires you to visually inspect something with your vision prior to sitting down.

anyways,..i think ive explained the issue far enough..id like to hear the excuse they will try to conjure up now, to save their grace and make them seem like they are total idiots in the first place.

[looktothesky]

Girls actually care about putting the seat down? If someone doesn't do it, I don't yell, or whine, or anything -- I put the seat down myself. Maybe some women don't look before they sit down, but those people are the stupidest ever.

Like, who wouldn't look before they sat down, either in a washroom or public place? Common sense, people! You don't want gum on your bum at a baseball game!

This post has been edited by looktothesky: 22 September 2007 - 03:46 PM

[Spoon Poetic]

Yeah, I never understood those women, either.

But I also have known a guy who didn't look before he sat, and the seat was up. But his butt was too fat to fall in, so I guess he got lucky.

I don't like it when guys don't put the seat down mostly because that means I have to do it, and I don't really want to have to touch the seat with my hands. But it's not a huge thing, really. It's a courtesy, though; partially for that, and partially because toilets just look nicer with the seat and lid down.

[barend]

Girls should just be happy that we lift the seat at all.

Girls actually care about putting the seat down? If someone doesn't do it, I don't yell, or whine, or anything -- I put the seat down myself. Maybe some women don't look before they sit down, but those people are the stupidest ever.

Like, who wouldn't look before they sat down, either in a washroom or public place? Common sense, people! You don't want gum on your bum at a baseball game!

Gum if you're lucky. My friend was telling me about htis guy at his work who keeps... no wait, you don't want to hear that story.

[princesskadee]

Girls should just be happy that we lift the seat at all.
Gum if you're lucky. My friend was telling me about htis guy at his work who keeps... no wait, you don't want to hear that story.

good..cause it sounds like a crock of shit to me

[Bond]

Could we... erm... get off toilet seats?

Honestly, guys are better because the opposite sex never tries to ogle their midsections.

[looktothesky]

Honestly, guys are better because the opposite sex never tries to ogle their midsections.

How does ogling midsections make a gender better? If anything girls are better that way because we look at people's faces when we talk to them, which displays respect, rather than staring at chests (in this example).

This post has been edited by looktothesky: 26 September 2007 - 09:36 AM

[barend]

good..cause it sounds like a crock of shit to me

?

cum now, that story had nothing to do with shit.

Totally.
A lot of people are very close minded, and aren't open towards anything like that. I hate how even a simple hug, or even crying on someone's shoulder is a kind of "taboo" and everything always has some kind of an underlying meaning to it, apparently.

close minded?

if anything i think you should play with each others boobs when you hug.

[David-kyo]

if anything i think you should play with each others boobs when you hug.

Uh-oh, now you've got incoming scud missiles from LTTS.

[looktothesky]

if anything i think you should play with each others boobs when you hug.

I love you, Barend.