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Posted 19 December 2007 - 07:39 AM

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Posted 19 December 2007 - 08:59 AM

And so ends another tale of true love.

Lessons to be learned, people?

I know I learned that delaying murder usually screws up a relationship.
<!--quoteo(post=174818:date=Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM:name=Cobnat)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Cobnat @ Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=174818"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Microsoft Sans Serif--><span style="font-family:Microsoft Sans Serif"><!--/fonto--><!--sizeo:2--><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo--><!--coloro:#FF0000--><span style="color:#FF0000"><!--/coloro-->Lets all have sex with robots until our groins are sore and bloody!<!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

<!--quoteo(post=169306:date=Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM:name=Legion)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Legion @ Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=169306"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Arial--><span style="font-family:Arial"><!--/fonto--><!--coloro:#483D8B--><span style="color:#483D8B"><!--/coloro--><!--sizeo:3--><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->So why the unholy flying purple donkeypunching fuck will it not work on yours? Just what kind of machine are you running there? Your toaster?<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

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<!--quoteo(post=180859:date=Jan 16 2008, 02:29 PM:name=Legion)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Legion @ Jan 16 2008, 02:29 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=180859"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->In my opinion it's saying, fuck the lightsabers and special effects and fuck your voiceovers and fuck your stupid multimilliondollar game studios; you don't need any of those to make brilliant and scary games that will fuck with your head.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

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Posted 19 December 2007 - 09:21 AM

QUOTE (CJ Marren @ Dec 20 2007, 12:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And so ends another tale of true love.

Lessons to be learned, people?

I know I learned that delaying murder usually screws up a relationship.


Listen to him, everyone! A relationship without murder is a like a salad without dressing.
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Posted 19 December 2007 - 11:09 AM

So, you just compared relationships to a salad without dressing? In my opinion, successful relationships are the ones without dressing.

Or at least, the fun ones are.
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Posted 19 December 2007 - 11:48 AM

Gonna reiterate that this was probably for the best. I don't know her or her sis, but that seems like a huge overreaction and very early in the game. Seriously, she might have had the surprise spoiled, but she couldn't act happy that someone is thinking of her? Kind of strange. Whoops, you apologized. She's still crying two days later over spilled milk. Doesn't strike me as very mature.

So has she officially buried the thing or is she unwilling to comment, attempting to passively keep it going? I'm curious, cause I could totally be wrong about this girl and it would be a shame to cut ties. I've only your anecdotal evidence to go on. But also, If she's dodgy about it, that could lead to other passive aggressive issues.

And don't let her play the "I've had bad relationships" card to evoke sympathy. Listen, nobody makes changes unless they want to make them. You can't change her, only support her. If she's genuine, she will change. She's gotta wake up with that feeling that it's a brand new day, just like everyone else in the world. It really sounds like she's got some growing up to do.

So in the end, use your best judgment, don't be a doormat, and don't stop struggling. Best advice a hopeful cynic can give you.
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Posted 19 December 2007 - 11:52 AM

QUOTE (Legion @ Dec 20 2007, 03:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So, you just compared relationships to a salad without dressing? In my opinion, successful relationships are the ones without dressing.

Or at least, the fun ones are.


Quality or quantity. I would rather be happy for a short time then be miserable for a long time. The dressing represents happiness and murder represents salad dressing.
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Posted 19 December 2007 - 09:39 PM

Actually, I was making a euphemism; in which case "dressing" also being applicable for "clothing".

And I agree. Quality over quantity. And I have to admit, I'm constantly grateful that I have both.
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Posted 20 December 2007 - 12:57 AM

I got neither, so it balances out.
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Posted 20 December 2007 - 05:02 AM

I desire blood.

The blood of innocents.

MMMM, ROMANCE, YUMMY YUM YUMS.
<!--quoteo(post=174818:date=Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM:name=Cobnat)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Cobnat @ Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=174818"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Microsoft Sans Serif--><span style="font-family:Microsoft Sans Serif"><!--/fonto--><!--sizeo:2--><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo--><!--coloro:#FF0000--><span style="color:#FF0000"><!--/coloro-->Lets all have sex with robots until our groins are sore and bloody!<!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

<!--quoteo(post=169306:date=Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM:name=Legion)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Legion @ Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=169306"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Arial--><span style="font-family:Arial"><!--/fonto--><!--coloro:#483D8B--><span style="color:#483D8B"><!--/coloro--><!--sizeo:3--><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->So why the unholy flying purple donkeypunching fuck will it not work on yours? Just what kind of machine are you running there? Your toaster?<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

And the man again!
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Posted 20 December 2007 - 08:08 PM

Ok, stop with the stupid murder jokes. You've already beaten the poor horse into a mangled pulp. You don't need to defecate on what's left of its corpse.

OP: If she's that spazzy right from the start, you're better off finding someone else. Be happy you saw that side of her before you had a long term commitment. Though it sucks that this stupid wrench was thrown in the works so early.

And it's "Laotian" when you're using it as an adjective to describe people descended from people from Laos. Just keep that in mind for future girls. tongue.gif
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Posted 20 December 2007 - 08:20 PM

QUOTE (Slade @ Dec 20 2007, 08:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok, stop with the stupid murder jokes. You've already beaten the poor horse into a mangled pulp. You don't need to defecate on what's left of its corpse.

OP: If she's that spazzy right from the start, you're better off finding someone else. Be happy you saw that side of her before you had a long term commitment. Though it sucks that this stupid wrench was thrown in the works so early.

And it's "Laotian" when you're using it as an adjective to describe people descended from people from Laos. Just keep that in mind for future girls. tongue.gif


Point 1) Yes. Please. It wasn't funny to begin with.
Point 2) No reply.
Point 3) Yeah. See that's just one of many things you can learn by watching King Of The Hill. The other being that overweight, middle aged bald Cajun men are a source of comedic gold.
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Posted 20 December 2007 - 10:53 PM

"It wasn't funny to begin with."

Be off with you, you humor-determining censor! Give a communist an inch and they take your jokes...
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Posted 21 December 2007 - 04:53 AM

QUOTE (Cyzyk @ Dec 21 2007, 03:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
"It wasn't funny to begin with."

Be off with you, you humor-determining censor! Give a communist an inch and they take your jokes...

Don't forget women, and jobs... and state!
<!--quoteo(post=174818:date=Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM:name=Cobnat)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Cobnat @ Oct 14 2007, 09:43 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=174818"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Microsoft Sans Serif--><span style="font-family:Microsoft Sans Serif"><!--/fonto--><!--sizeo:2--><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo--><!--coloro:#FF0000--><span style="color:#FF0000"><!--/coloro-->Lets all have sex with robots until our groins are sore and bloody!<!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

<!--quoteo(post=169306:date=Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM:name=Legion)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Legion @ Aug 10 2007, 11:03 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=169306"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--><!--fonto:Arial--><span style="font-family:Arial"><!--/fonto--><!--coloro:#483D8B--><span style="color:#483D8B"><!--/coloro--><!--sizeo:3--><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->So why the unholy flying purple donkeypunching fuck will it not work on yours? Just what kind of machine are you running there? Your toaster?<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc--><!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

And the man again!
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Posted 21 December 2007 - 02:00 PM

Maybe my job and my state, but commies aren't much at getting my women.
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Posted 21 December 2007 - 09:01 PM

[quote name='Slade' date='Dec 20 2007, 07:08 PM' post='179273']


And it's "Laotian" when you're using it as an adjective to describe people descended from people from Laos. Just keep that in mind for future girls. tongue.gif
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if youre referring to me, i was correct in my usage of saying Lao instead of Laotian.

any questions, refer to wikipedia under "Laos"

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