I didn't mean to offend anyone with my explanation of emo.
When talking about music, I find that the term "emo" just doesn't really work anymore. The original definition, sure, fine - but today it seems to encompass so much crap. Anything where there's like a problem the singer is singing about, and it's not country music or opera, that's emo. Psh. That's almost every existing song ever. But I never said anything about the music, I don't care one way or t'other about the music really, as some of it's good and some of it's bad just like any other genre, and I don't divide what I listen to into genres, anyway - I just like what I like, and listen to what I like.
I dunno. Emo these days is (
mostly) just a big poseur thing. I think there are maybe 5 non-poseur emos in the whole world. And like Jm said, emo isn't noncomformist, just like any fashion that has an immediate labeling (punk, goth, whatever).
I just think the de-evolution of the term "emo" has brought in a lot of crap with negative connotations to just about anyone who doesn't associate themselves with it. That plus the fact that a billion crappy little kids that can't spell or even speak right are all like, "omg im so emo i cut myself n let it bled til i diiiiie insyyyyyde n then i go get sum stuf at hot topyc" and they just whine about how their rich dad is SO horrible because he bought them jeans from Abercrombie when they wanted bondage pants overladen with skulls and chains and crap, and thus, their life is worthless and no one cares about them and all this other bs. It's "cool" to be angsty and whiny and it's "cool" to self-mutilate and it's "cool" to misspell everything and write bad poetry with all the same cliches as everyone else's bad poetry.
And I'm talking about the majority of those who identify themselves as emo, at least around here and on the websites/forums/etc that I've looked at. Not at anyone specifically. There probably are some genuine "emos" out there that wouldn't fit into this, I'm just talking about what the "subculture" has seemed to de-evolve into.
As far as the fashion goes, it used to be different from other stuff, but now it just seems to be a clone of what used to be known as punk and/or goth, plus the big glasses and the black bangs in the eyes, and don't forget the tiny little scratches running down the arms (I don't think I've seen anyone that boasts about their cutting do anything worse than what a kitten could do). It used to be more like, indie-geek-punk... I dunno. It was different, and then it became crap. People any younger than I am don't even remember what "punk" and "goth" are, because now those subcultures are associated with "emo," too, and true punk and goth are dying out.
Please, don't be offended. I'm referring to the people that are giving "emo" a bad name (and killing other sub-cultures in the process), that just happen to be the majority of those that identify themselves as "emo" (whether they should be considered "true" emos or not). Not the "true" subculture, and I'm not targeting anyone.
And here I've rambled again... Sorry to be such a "girl."
Edit: Used HTML again. Grah.
This post has been edited by Spoon Poetic: 08 May 2007 - 01:34 PM
I am writing about Jm in my signature because apparently it's an effective method of ignoring him.