Sure three is a crowd..but her caring for him-if you can even call it that- as her husband's mentor is not quite the same thing.
So no..sorry but no. Fan fics and sites can see what they twill, but Obi Wan and Padme were never lovers, and were barely seen onscreen together, except when Obi-Wan went to her to try to help Anakin, as he suspected Anakin and her were involved.
There is NO relationship there. Nothing in the accepteed canon supports your views, no matter how..insightful they are.
The facts are what they are and none of your intepretations can change them. Maybe had Lucas written it in as you seem to have wanted, there would be a discussion. But he did not. Obi-Wan was a proper jedi and as you argue in other posts, it makes sense that jedi would not be allowed to love...you cannot have it both ways.
This post has been edited by Infernus: 25 May 2007 - 01:55 PM