Calling out the bashers

QUOTE (civilian_number_two @ Apr 6 2006, 11:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I don't even understand the idea that there's "someone for everyone." Who started that? If this is the case, are we blaming unattractive people for being lazy, and that's why they're alone? Some people will never date anyone their entire lives. Maybe they didn't attend the same "play fair" seminar that you did, Jejef, but try telling them that there's "someone for everyone." The idea doesn't even make any sense. Who adjudicates that? If you're alone and you're having trouble meeting someone, to whom should you complain?

If you want something, you get it yourself. I'm not talking about playing fair, I'm talking about reality. Nobody's going to hook you up with your 'someone'. You have to get off your ass and go play the game, just like all the other people on this planet. If you're ugly, so what. It doesn't matter if 'you' think you're unattractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If I told you I could hook up with any woman I wanted to, you'd instantly call me a liar. The truth is, I can. I'm ugly as hell. Does it stop me from getting any action? Not a damn bit. The problem with most guys is they don't know what the opposite sex wants. That's why it may seem like unattractive people are lazy. Some people will never date anyone... probably right... but it's their own damn fault. You have to take some kind of initiative. Before you can act upon it, you have to know who you are. Do you like yourself? Chances are, if you don't... nobody else is going to like you either. You have to learn to identify your strong points and act upon them. Women will notice. Trust me. You have to crawl before you can walk.

QUOTE (Sailor Abbey @ Apr 7 2006, 12:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Hey I thought you said/implied having frivolous sex with a stranger was irresponsible.

I did imply it was irresponsible. I'm glad you picked up on that. I didn't say I have frivolous sex with strangers. I don't agree with it. I have had very decent, long lasting relationships with women. I make sure I know someone before I get any kind of action. I'm not saying I'm a prude, but I don't agree with one-night stands.

QUOTE (civilian_number_two @ Apr 6 2006, 11:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Ok fine, Jejef. There is someone for everyone, and you can have sex with literally any woman you want, regardless of looks, wealth, or social position. You are God's gift to women, and any man or woman out there who is unable to find a soulmate is just lazy.

I didn't say I was God's gift to women. I said I believed in myself. I believe I can hook up with literally any woman I want. How does this make me God's gift to women? It's not my fault I'm confident in my abilities to talk to women. I think people that don't think they can't find their soulmate aren't trying hard enough. Rich, good looking women aren't going to fall in your lap. Sometimes, guys get lucky, but it's very rare. You have to take the initiative. Make the first move. If you don't, some other person will.