Posted 06 July 2005 - 11:56 AM
Just for the record, since we're baring our spuls here, I don't mind overtly in-your-face homosexuals. We live in an overtly in-your-face heterosexual culture, so pot, meet kettle. Look at an average magazine rack, and you'll see a lot of gals in their underwear. I am NOT complaining.
I am overtly in-your-face heterosexual. If I meet a woman I find attractive, she will know pretty quick. I don't get creeped-out reactions to my behaviour, so I dare say the average straight gal is more accepting of heterosexual men than Jordan is of homosexual men.
I know where Jordan works, and yeah, there are a lot of fags around there. That is a cruising area, so no doubt he sees some weird shit. Jordan, for the record, those guys that creep you out are the ones you notice. The fags you don't even realise are gay? Those guys are the average. YET: Being openly and outwardly gay is the only way these guys are going to meet one another. In a culture that is predominantly straight, how are they supposed to know who to hit on? (Don't worry Jordan, when they hit on you, it usually means you are dressing well, and women will like that. Sometimes of course it means you are dealing with a slimy queer who will hit on anything, but you gotta take the annoying with the complimentary. I have been hit on by fags, a lot of times, and my world has never come to an end).
Someone made a crack about hot lesbians. Yep. Fair is fair; the gay marriage issue affected women more than men, since lesbians will pretty much move in together on the second date. But the whole issue has always been about fags. What up? Are we like Queen Victoria, unwilling to accept that lesbianism exists?
MC: Bang on with the comment about neutral-register versus pejorative. Most open-minded redneck in the bunch or not, R47, you had to know that "autism" and "retardation" were not the most polite ways to describe something a little less common than left-handedness and a little more common than red hair. Birth defect? Yikes.
Open challenge still on for anyone arguing that homosexuality is a disease, an affront to nature, a self-destructive psychological trend, or the end of the world, who is NOT religious. Freaks and liars don't count.
"I had a lot of different ideas. At one point, Luke, Leia and Ben were all going to be little people, and we did screen tests to see if we could do that." -George Lucas, in STAR WARS: the Annotated Screenplays (p197).